YT 91 – They Called Him Arrogant. He Almost Gave Up Speaking Forever

Would you tear up your speech mid-presentation… if someone told you to? In this episode of YanaTV,  I sat down with Dr. James Smith Jr, Dr. James Smith Jr did—and it became the best thing he ever did. He’s not just a global speaker or leadership coach—he’s a master of vulnerability. From walking on hot coals to teaching future leaders in Singapore, James shares how he went from corporate life to transformational storytelling. His journey is raw, hilarious at times, and deeply human. You won’t forget the lesson behind why his funeral will include high fives.

Discussion Topics: They Called Him Arrogant

• He flew across the world for this story—and you’ll want to hear it.
• Locked out, running late, and still had to lead—what would you do?
• Why trying to be perfect might just make you fail.
• What happens when you stop performing—and start showing up?
• Forget “content is king”—here’s the leadership skill no one’s teaching.
• The one sentence that changed how I teach forever.
• Singaporeans vs. Americans—what I learned from teaching both.
• They said this gig would kill my career. I did it anyway.
• His review almost ended my dream. Here’s what saved it.
• The one presentation skill no one taught me—but changed everything.
• What my partner really wants from me—and it’s not a motivational quote.
• Even at my funeral, I’ll still be high-fiving people. Here’s why.

Our Guest: Dr. James Smith, Jr.

Dr. James Smith, Jr. is an award-nominated author, keynote speaker, and presentation coach with over 30 years of experience helping professionals communicate with authenticity and impact. Known as the “Presentation Skills Doctor,” he has worked with clients like HBO, Harvard, and Accenture, and brings energy and storytelling to every stage.

He also teaches at Rutgers, Temple, and Rushford Business School in Geneva. His latest book, The No Excuse Guide to Success, was nominated for an NAACP Image Award, and his upcoming book, Present to Express, Not Impress, explores the power of authentic communication.